Self-Discovery – The Key to a Happier Life

The term “Self-discovery” means identifying yourself and your needs. Even though it may hear a small word, in reality, it has a huge meaning and a huge role in people’s life. You may dream of leading a certain kind of life, but when you enter that kind of life, you do not seem to be happy. This makes self-discovery very important. If you do not discover yourself, and know exactly what you want form life, you always tend to be unhappy. This is the major reasons why counselors go for self-discovery sessions. However, even without the help of counselors, you can discover yourself if are a little aware of your needs and feelings.

 

The first step to self-discovery is identification of your needs. Most of the people do not know what they want. They keep on searching for one thing and when they achieve that thing, they still are unhappy. To identify your needs, you first need to sit in a quiet place and relax yourself. 

 

Then, when you are in a relaxed state of mind, meditate and focus on your thoughts. Ask yourself questions like what makes you happy, what makes you sad and so on. Along with the question of what, also ask why it makes you happy or sad. Seek a deep and strong reason behind it, not any fragile reason. After you have the answer to all your questions, write them down in a piece of paper in a tabular form so that whenever you see it, you can understand it. This finishes the identification session. This is the most important part of the session of self-discovery. 

 

Next, you have to prioritize your needs that you have identified from the first step. You may have several reasons that make you happy, but it is not possible to implement them altogether. Therefore, you have to prioritize them into first, second, third and so on. This will make everything systematic and you can get all the happy things done one by one. Since you have also noted the things that make you sad, therefore, you can stay away from those things. There will be no confusions anymore if they are well written in paper as well as well engraved in your mind. 

 

Next is executing these happy moments into actions. Thus, you discover yourself and lead a happier life if you are a well-disciplined and good follower of instructions.

Dealing with Criticism

“If you keep your head when all about you are losing theirs and blaming it on you” is a line from Rudyard Kipling’s famous poem “If.” There are probably many of us who can identify with the words and understand the frustration of being misunderstood or unfairly judged.

 

Almost every day either we or someone we love experience this frustration. Faced with being misunderstood we respond. How we respond is according to the poem, the measure of our manhood (equally woman hood). Learning how to respond to criticism and to deal with the negative things people say to us is a step of maturity and personal development. 

 

Criticism is an attack on our self-esteem and our defensive attitude is the way we try to protect our self from a painful experience. Just as we put up our hands to prevent ourselves being physically hurt, we put up our defensive attitude to prevent emotional or mental health. 

 

This defensive attitude may either take on an apologetic attitude. We make apologies for our behavior or those of others, or it may take on an attacking attitude, where we tend to look for ways of blaming others for the situation so we can share the blame and perhaps take some of the heat off our role in the situation. 

 

What are some positive ways we can respond to criticism so that the negative reaction we instinctively feel can become something positive in our life and a tool for self-development and personal maturity? 

 

• Look on any incident of criticism. As an opportunity for learning and self-growth not as an attack on your self-esteem. 

• Much of the anger that eventuates from criticism has the risk of becoming a grudge against the person delivering the criticism that creates its own set of problems. Make a determined effort to forgive the person who has given the criticism and actively seek to work with them to negotiate a solution you are both satisfied with.

• When you are receiving criticism, try to take a step back before you respond. Thank them for their words and tell them you will consider what they have said to you and discuss it with them on another occasion. This approach enables both of you to calm your emotions and to discuss the situation later when you both have had chance to think about it.

• Think about the criticism; ask yourself if it is justified. If it is, then seek ways to prevent the situation recurring and, if it is not, take steps to refute it calmly and preferably with evidence. 

• Don’t dwell on the criticism but move on. Your value is not determined by one piece of criticism. 

Do Not Underestimate the Importance of 5 Minutes

Does your life seem out of control? Do you always feel like you are running from one activity to the next without taking a break? 

 

Never underestimate the importance of 5 minutes. No matter how busy a day we have, we all have 5 minutes to spare in our day and it can do so much to change our perspective on the pressures of our life in the here and now. 

 

What can be accomplished in 5 minutes and how does it help our journey of self-discovery?

 

• Take 5 minutes each day to clear out some clutter in your life. Maybe a work area, a pantry or a garage. Allow yourself to enjoy the moment when you have completed it! Clutter free lives help us to think more clearly and to focus on our work. Research shows that people with a tidy work area achieve more productivity than those with a cluttered area. 

• Take 5 minutes to go for a walk and find something beautiful in your world you haven’t seen before. It will open up a way to count the other blessings in your life that often stay hidden from view as we are often too busy to enjoy them. 

• Take 5 minutes to do some exercise and marvel at how much fitter you feel today than you did yesterday. If you don’t have time to exercise for long periods during the day, 6 lots of 5 minutes add up to a 30-minute workout every day. 

• Take 5 minutes to pray, meditate or have some periods in your day, where you reflect on yourself and your spiritual health and well-being. If you believe in God, ensure you protect this time in the business of your day as spiritual well-being is an important part of a holistic approach to life.

• Take 5 minutes to fix a proper meal for your family and not find yourself too busy so you buy take away every night. Your body needs good nutrition. Ensure you have plenty of vegetables and fruit as well as lean protein and good carbohydrates and oil in your diet to maintain your body in good health. Enjoy the difference it makes to your energy levels.

• Go to bed 5 minutes earlier each night so you re-create sleep and wake cycles help maintain your focus and alertness. 

 

Never underestimate the power of 5 minutes in your life! 

How to Deal with Behaviors that Irritate You in Others

We all know what it is like to have people in our lives who irritate us and we prefer to avoid them. Maybe we can’t understand why we feel the way we do about them, and we are upset with ourselves for always reacting as we do to them. How can we understand our responses to them and how can we understand where the feelings come from that create these reactions in us? 

 

Each of us have developed a set of values that determine how we think and feel about life, including right and wrong behaviors and attitudes. When we see other’s doing things or saying things that are outside our parameters of acceptable behavior we tend to react and respond, usually in a negative way.

 

Learning to accept that what is wrong to us, may not be wrong to others, is an important part of personal development. We may not agree with their choices, but we must allow people to be themselves, which means having values and ideas that may differ from our own perception of what is right and wrong. 

 

The triggers for reactions to behavior we don’t like, often originate in our child hood experiences. If we have been told to eat with our mouth closed, it’s understandable that for us, that behavior is a manner that we consider important for ourselves and our families to try to achieve. When we experience people who have never been taught that behavior who have no personal rules for eating, we can become frustrated with them. Often our values and behaviors become the measure for everyone else’s behavior. 

 

People who live together in the same house, sometimes experience relationship issues when one of the partners expects certain behaviors but the other doesn’t see them as important. Instead of reacting to the other person’s concept of the world and behaviors we need to learn how to accept and even appreciate the differences. 

 

As we do this, we give the gift of unconditional acceptance to the other person, whilst helping to reduce the frustration and anger of our own attitudes to the situation. Of course, there are unacceptable behaviors that no one should accept (domestic violence for example) but most things that irritate us about others are really the product of our own personal thoughts and not based on anything of importance except to ourselves. 

 

We cannot always control our reactions to others’ behaviors that create frustration in us, but we can learn to control the way we see and respond to them. 

Am I a Pessimist or an Optimist?

Optimism and pessimism are two contradictory terms. Optimism means positive thinking and keeping hope, while pessimism means negative thinking and not hoping for the good. However, who is better, an optimistic person or a pessimistic person? Who succeeds more in life? Who lives a happier and peaceful life? It is definitely optimistic person leads a happier and peaceful life and achieves success faster in life than a pessimistic person. 

 

Studies show that optimism makes a greater impact on a person’s success, attitude, health and outlook. In addition, people who are pessimistic about their life have the tendency to get sick and die earlier than optimistic people. Generally, a person starts his or her career, relationships or any task with a positive or a negative attitude. You may say that why start if you are not convinced about the task or is in a negative frame of mind. Well, sometimes certain compulsions leave you to take up a task even if you are not willing to do so. In such cases, instead of trying to explain people why you do not want to take up the task, thin of the benefits it can bring to you. This way you can enjoy the task and start with a positive attitude. 

 

Being an optimistic gives you many benefits. You lead a longer life, you are happier in life than others are, you achieve the desired success, you get lovely friends, you have fun in life. Here only few have been mentioned, however there are countless benefits that you can reap being an optimist. Not to mention, the pessimists miss all these as they spend all their time bemoaning over their failures and accusing. 

 

To know whether you are an optimistic or a pessimistic, you have to know yourself. You must have the ability to listen to the voice of your heart. Think of the times when you landed up in a negative situation, and how you reacted during those times. What sort of thoughts came to your mind in those days? How you took charge over the situation. 

 

Once you get the answer to these questions, you will know whether you are a pessimistic person or not. If you are, then do the necessary to change yourself to an optimistic person. There are plenty of resources available over the Internet or books that can help you change your attitude from a pessimistic to an optimistic person. 

Can Positive Thinking Change Your Life?

Most people nowadays are always in a depressed state of mind due to the pressures of life. Doctors and counselors constantly advices you to thinking think positively in order to set back depression. However, it is tougher to do than to say. Studies show that people who accept defeat sportingly are the happier strata of people and they have an optimistic attitude towards life. 

 

It often may happen that you get worried out of minor issues arising in your daily life. On the other hand, do you get frustrated when things go haphazard? Do you think that you are not happy as much as others are? Do you get angry at the slightest mistake? If these entire attitudes have covered your life, then learn some positive thinking strategies to make life easier and happier. Only an optimistic person can lead a happy and peaceful life. 

 

Now you may ask what exactly the meaning of positive thinking is and how important it is. The answer to this is positive thinking is a process of thinking everything in life or surroundings from a positive or brighter side even if it reflects a negative tone. The outlook and approach towards a task should be from a positive point. The thought in your head must enlighten the positive aspects instead of the negative, discouraging thoughts. Once you change your attitude from a pessimist to an optimist, you will find feel all the good vibes. All good things will surround you and give you more energy to move forward in times of depression.

 

Nevertheless, how do you suddenly change from being a pessimist to an optimist? Well, it is not a matter of sudden change or changing your thinking process within a day. It all depends on time, your practice and willingness. You have to learn to identify your inner voice. This is the first step to make the changes. 

 

Some people perform an act suddenly without thinking for a second time. They do not think from their whether they really want to do or not. Therefore, first you have to learn to identify your inner voice. After that, always speak in a positive manner. For instance, if you are asking yourself a question, then instead of asking, “Am I not capable of doing this work?” ask, “Am I capable of doing this work?” It reflects a positive attitude. You can find several such examples in your daily life if you put a little attention to what you do. 

 

Therefore, if you are willing to change your life for the good, then keep a little patience and learn to think positively. 

How to Stay Positive When You Are in a Negative Environment

We often end up being in a negative environment for a short time or sometimes even for a long term. The best example to this is unemployment. In this economic condition when everyone is losing his or her jobs, negativity often sets into a person. Some people who lose their jobs get a new job within a short span of time, while others have to wait. Some people live optimistically to land some job one day or the other while others get into a depression. However, studies show that optimistic people achieve greater success. This means a person who keeps hope lands up a job faster than one who gets frustrated. 

 

The frustration and depression reflect on your cover letter and that results in denial of jobs by the employer. An employer can easily find out a low self-esteemed person from a high esteemed person. A low esteemed person has lesser productivity. Therefore, why should a company employ a person who has less productivity and make a loss? Being a negative person, you also search for the wrong job opportunities and thus end up missing more jobs. Therefore, instead going into a depressed state, stand up straight, take things in your stride and keep hope. 

 

One good technique to stay positive in a negative environment is jot down the positive things that come to your mind or that exists in your life. Do this on a daily basis. For instance, write the names of people who love you, all the possessions that you have acquired these years by sheer hard work and so on. Also, note at least one positive thing that you have done in the day. This will make you feel that you are not useless. You can do the world some good. This feeling is important to stay positive in a negative environment. 

 

In days when pessimism is likely to set into your mind, engage yourself more in outdoor activities that interest you. You might be a little hesitant at first to go out, but once you go out and engage yourself in the outdoor activities you will start thinking positively. For instance, if you love playing badminton, play badminton for at least two hours every day. Think that you have a holiday and you are pursuing your interests and hobbies during this holiday. Engaging yourself in your interests is not a waste of time rather it is useful.

 

Therefore, following these few tips you can definitely stay positive even if you are in a negative environment. 

How to Stay Unaffected from Negative Thoughts of People

The world fills with both types of people – negative thinking people as well as positive thinking people. Negative thinking people are around every corner of the world looking forward to ruin your day. These pessimistic people derive satisfaction from indulging an optimistic person into negative thoughts. Therefore, it is always advisable to stay unaffected by the words of these pessimists. Here are few ways to help you out. 

 

Often negative–minded people will come to you first when you are in a turbid situation. They come and make all the possible negative comments to put the fear into you. Simply, they derive satisfaction out of this. Therefore, do not take their words into your head. Instead, appear polite to them and make them feel that you are not moved by the situation. However, if their words can move you once, then you are likely to suffer from negativity and depression. Therefore, do not lose your decision-making capabilities. 

 

Taking things personally is a major mistake. Negative people always does things deliberately to make you upset. In reality, they are unhappy in their lives; therefore, they see your life in the same way as theirs. The best way to deal with these people is not to pay any attention to their comments. Just let them speak and you put your ear to some other tasks.

 

Another way to deal with negative people and remain unaffected by them is to do them an equal amount of good for all the negative things they do for you. In fact, doing this will not only make them jealous, but also you will feel satisfied for the good you have done to some people. At least, you can write on your list every day some amount of good you have done. You good may make them realize someday and make them a positive person. 

 

Confront them and say them that their negative thoughts and comments make people more depressed in times of negativity. They may already know this about themselves, but may not have heard others telling them. Therefore, confronting them will shake their confidence and make them rethink about their attitude. Demonstrating their attitude and letting them know how mean they are may make them change their attitude a little. 

 

Over and above, if you are optimistic, it is not advisable to stay away from pessimistic people, but to remain unaffected by the doings or words of pessimistic people. This will show the real optimism in you. 

Steps to Think Positively

Many a times, you may have heard people saying you to think in a positive note to get the outcome of things right. You may have wondered how to think positively when circumstances show negativity. To say, positive thinking depends on the practice and willingness to do so. Here are some steps that can help you to think positively even if you are a negative minded person.

 

First, every day when you get up in the morning, read or listen to some quotes related to positive thinking. Listening makes a greater impact than reading. You can hear these quotes in television and radio. You can also download them from the Internet. They are available in plenty over the web. In addition, you can always keep a book with you to read it any time throughout the day you want to. This is the first and basic to follow to bring about an optimistic attitude to you. 

 

Second is always to speak in a positive tone. For instance, instead of saying, “The glass is half empty”, say, “The glass is half full”. This throws a positive impact on the listener’s mind and he or she gets the confidence to proceed further with challenges. Keep hope and believe in yourself to make a difference to your attitude. This works in favor of optimism. 

 

Instead of accusing others or yourself for some failed work, take the responsibility to get out of the situation and achieve success. Blaming only lead to more failures, negativity and fear in yourself. Therefore, take the stride as to why the things went haywire and seek the solution to reorder things once more. The faster you learn to do this, the greater things will start happening in your favor. 

 

Do not let negative emotions surround you. For example, you may have failed in your exam. It is definite that you will get upset and be in a morose state for many days. However, you have to avoid being in a morose state and think positively as to why you have failed. Analyze the reason behind your failure, create a new strategy to move forward, and start working on it from the next day. Think that the failure might have done some god to you. You get to learn much more than the others do. Instead of passing out this year with little marks, it is better to pass off the next year with excellence. 

 

Thus, these are few strategies to make you from a pessimistic person to optimistic person. 

An Overview of the Term Self-Discovery

Often you may have heard children or even sometimes grown adults asking the question, “Who am I?” This leaves one in a state of confusion. Many people may say why the above question leads to a state of confusion because we have a personal identity of our own and that gives the answer to the above question. Well, even though you have a personal identity, but everything that you create is superfluous. It may destroy in a matter of seconds and can leave you with no identity. Therefore, what is your permanent identity? For discover your permanent identity, you have to discover yourself. 

 

Discovering yourself merely does not mean what you like to eat, drink or wear. It involves much deeper thoughts than that. Most of the people on this earth do not know themselves, even if they claim so. Knowing yourself requires deep concentration on yourself and your thoughts. If every man knew himself, then he or she would not have had so much confusions, depressions or frustrations. They would have known what their heart wants and done things the same way. Therefore, self-discovery is a means to know yourself and hear the voice of your soul. 

 

Another way to achieve self-discovery is to see you in the mirror of the surrounding world. That does not mean you compare yourself to others. You have to study the positive traits within you in percept of the others and turn the negative things within you as positive. This is a way to discover you to a new individual. 

 

You may have many hidden talents within you and discovering yourself is the best way to bring out the hidden talents or positive traits within you. Discovering yourself is not an easy job and requires much patience and determination. You also must be willing to know more about yourself. Thus, growing into a new individual with positive traits enhances your self-confidence and self-esteem. A subtle change in you will also bring you to notice and appreciation of others. 

 

To end up, self-discovery is essential for any human being at any stage of life. The more a human being discovers himself or herself, the more he or she is on the road to success. When you will discover the positive traits within you, then you will also feel happy in the same you as others who will appreciate you. 

Ways to Discover Yourself

There are millions of people in this earth coming from different regions with different religions with different colors of their skin and different cultures. In spite of so many differences, one thing common among all is that every human being has come to this earth or planet with a purpose. Again, the purpose may vary from one individual to the other. Many a times, you may have role models whom you want to follow. 

 

Many people instead of looking up to their role models, copy their role models. This is not to be done. You may have a role model, but always look up to him or her and do not copy him or her exactly. By doing this, you lose your individuality and end up being a person with no purpose. Be yourself and have a definite purpose in life. That way, you can discover yourself. 

 

To discover yourself and understand your achievement abilities, you have to understand the basic fact that you are bound to face obstacles when achieving target. For instance, when a baby is growing, he first learns to crawl, then he slowly learns to sit, then he learns to stand and then finally, he learns to walk and run. The little child does all this with the aim to hug his or her lovely parents. In spite of the obstacles he faces, he reaches his aim and hugs his parents after several tries. Thus, with this simple example, you can understand that while reaching your target, you have to face obstacles, but you have to overcome them. 

 

Focus is yet another important related to self-discovery. Many people do not know how to focus on a goal. They simply spend their time doing things that are a waste of time or simply useless. Therefore, when you strive to reach the goal, you have to focus on the tasks that relates to the goal and not on some other tasks. 

 

You have to understand the truth of life, that is, every human being is born on this earth to serve this earth in one way or the other. He or she does this by helping each other, which in turn serves the earth. In other words, everything on this earth is interdependent on each other. 

 

Finally, to discover yourself and achieve success, you have to lead a disciplined life. A haphazard life leads to obfuscation and no use. 

 

Thus, these are simple ways to discover you and become a successful person.

What Are the Factors That Can Make You Discover Yourself?

Self-discovery is not a thing that happens by its self. Certain situations and factors lead us to discover ourselves. When we grow up, we have to pass through many unwanted situations in our life. These situations make you discover yourself. Listed below are some factors with detailed descriptions.

 

Practicing experience is the most important factor to discover you. Many a times, you have thought to react in a certain way when faced with certain situations, but when you really face the situation, you react in some other way that may be entirely opposite from what you have thought. This is the time you discover yourself. Even if you think in a certain way, your practical actions are entirely different. This is because we do not want to accept the fact until we face the situation. Most importantly, we do not seek practical experiences show us the person we are and how we can change to our best. 

 

Sacrifices are also a major way to the learning of self-discovery. It is such a point when we have to make a personal choice. It is not that if we do not choose to sacrifice, then we are bad, or if we choose to sacrifice, then we are good. It is entirely a personal choice and you can opt for anyone. Some people may wish to sacrifice, which leads to the self-discovery that they are sacrificing in nature while others who may not wish to sacrifice is called leisurely. Thus, this is again a practical situation of the other way. 

 

Environment is yet another important factor that plays a major role in discovering yourself. The environment in which you stay makes an impact on you and you turn out to be the same kind of person. If you are in a positive environment, you tend to discover yourself as a person with positive outlook, and if you are in a negative environment, then you tend to discover yourself as a person with negative outlook. Thus, the environmental factor is a temporary discovery. However, if you are in a negative environment constantly, then you become a negative person completely.

 

Thus, the elements of self-discovery are transparent and in one time of your life or the other, you get the opportunity to discover yourself. It is important to discover yourself not only for apparent causes, but also for your inner satisfaction.

How the Positive Thinking Series Helps You Get Advanced Affirmation and Attraction

Living a positive life is the key to success. Look at ball the successful individuals; rarely do they tend to wear a frown on their faces. This is simply because they tend to dispose all kinds of negativity that is put in them and turn it into success. This is exactly what “Advanced Affirmation and Attraction” is all about. This is an e-Book that is part of the Positive Thinking Series of 5 e-books that squarely contains tips on how best to use deal with negativity. In “Advanced Affirmation and Attraction”, one gets tips that help him or her attract the good things in life using a positive mindset. In addition to this, it also has some tips on the proper use of power strategies for life success. 

 

In the first chapter, the author talks about the little things in life that bring about happiness in us. The book states that we should explore them and concentrate on them for a positive mindset. As a matter of fact, they will help overshadow the negativity that pulls us back. Chapter two then discusses the provisions for a positive life that are within us. These are basically our strengths, gifts and natural talents; we should use them positively for our benefits.  In the next chapter, one gets introduced to power methods that can efficiently guide us to positive thinking.

 

Personally, I find the fourth and fifth chapters to be the most important in the whole book. This is because the talk of building the life you desire. According to these two chapters, whether or not you get the life you have always dream of is all upon you. Chapter four basically speaks about creating your dream life. Hard work is obviously one of the basic factors of creating the perfect life but it should be accompanied by positivity. This is where chapter five comes in speaking about attitude. The kind of attitude you have on something will influence how well you perform in it; a positive attitude leads to success and vice versa. In addition to this, with a positive mindset one will be able to attract the good things. 

Chapter six is all about getting out of you comfort zone. This is where the aspect of hard work and sacrifice for success comes in. The final two chapters dwell on the art of affirmations and how well one can use them for success.       

Positive Thinking Series—Creating the Power of Positive Thoughts in the Post-Modern Age

The positive Thinking Series has really gained popularity among many of its users. It is basically a series of 5 e-Books that dwell on positive living tips and especially in this technology-based age of life. The first book in this series is “The Power of Positive Thoughts in the Post-Modern age”. It goes for about 1 US Dollar in most of the genuine online stores. It contains a total of 8 chapters plus one summarizing chapter. In its contents, it specifically deals with the power of thoughts and how well they one can utilize it positively to succeed in this modern age. 

 

The first chapter is a detailed summary on the power of thoughts. Our mindsets are basically made up of thoughts that dwell in our brain. Thoughts can be influenced by the environment we live in or the kind of people we socialize with. It may be our parents or friends; whatever they tend to speak about us really makes a huge impact on the kind of thoughts we have. If they tend to talk of things that suggest you to be a failure, then your mindset will adjust in such a way that most of your thought will be redirected on how much of a failure you are. This chapter explains the different types of thoughts and the effect they have in our lives.

 

Chapter two brings in the aspect of what results from these thoughts; the feelings and views. It goes ahead to discuss how one can achieve success with the right thoughts. In chapter three, the mind is analyzed in terms of the thoughts it generates. One thing that comes clearly is the fact that the mind is very creative; it has no limits when it comes to thoughts. It is therefore up to us to maintain positive thoughts for success. In fact, with the right mindset on tends to have a certain ability to attract the good things in life. 

Chapters four and five give one tips on how to generate a positive mindset. However, they emphasize on the state of peace. A peaceful mind is more likely to gain a positive mindset unlike on that has been intoxicated with all kinds of chaos. Especially in the fast-paced generation, peace of mind is quit essential. Chapter 7 deals with concentration and its importance. This is where various meditation practices come in handy such as yoga. They are a good avenue for concentrating and this is why many people have turned to them today. Chapter 8 gives incidents where these tips apply.       

Positive Thinking Series—eBooks from the Internet

Many a times, we tend to face frustration in life. This is basically brought about by the negativity that surrounds us. The word ‘no’ is the major source of negativity especially when it comes from those close to us. Take for example a mother who is always saying negative things about her son; the son will obviously feel depressed. The same applies to us in our daily endeavors. It is our duty to turn that negativity into a drive for success. This can only be done through positive thinking and channeling all of it towards success. This applies to businesses, relationships and the general day-to-day life activities.  

 

To help you think positively is the Positive Thinking Series of e-Books. This is a series of online books that contain step by step tips on how to live a positive life and overcome the all of life’s negativity. Generally, they are guidelines on how to live positively. The complete series contains a total f five e-Books that come with resell rights. These rights are those that allow the seller to give the buyers the right to sell the books again. 

 

Each of these books is meant to deal with a certain sector of life. The first one is “How to Stop Worrying and Start Living Effectively In the 21^st Century”. This particular book contains tips on how to get rid of all the troubles and look at life in a positive perspective especially in this age of technology and modernized living. Using the tips, you will be in a position to live a life free from worries. The second book is “Purposeful Law of Attraction Accomplishment”. This book particularly deals with the law of attraction between people of the same sex. It also deals with various aspects of relationships and general dating. 

 

The third book is “Advanced Affirmation and Attraction”. This is partly a continuation of “Purposeful Law of Attraction Accomplishment”. In its initial chapters, it deals with how one can affirm that he or she has properly used the law of attraction to achieving a purposeful life by positive living. The rest of the book deals with power strategies in relation to positive thinking and how one can use them wisely. The fourth book is the “Power Attraction Power Play”. This is just but a continuation of the third book in the series. It elaborates more on power strategies in terms of attraction. Finally, there is “The Power of Positive Thoughts in the Post-Modern Age”. It is a summary of the whole series in relation to modern life.     

Positive Thinking Series—Power Attraction, Power Play

Positive living is the only way to live a healthy and successful life. Carrying negative garbage with us all through will just derail us from our pursue of success. In fact, we can never function properly if we always dwell on the negativity that has been inflicted on us. Rejection is one of the major ways in which negativity infects us. The word ‘no’ simply represents rejection. For a positive thinker, this word should be a stepping stone to success. It should give us the strength and zeal to pursue success even more.

 

This also applies to the individuals that are in power. “Power Attraction, Power Play” is a book in the Positive Thinking Series that deals with this particular topic. In its first phase, it shows us how to attract power. There is no way that one claim to be in power without any kind of powers to show for it. Therefore, positive thinking is the best way to attract power. With a positive mindset, one can easily rise to a position of power. This may not necessarily be in your workplaces; it can be in any kind of set-up. Those around you will pick you due to the amount of success you will get from positive thinking. 

 

Attracting the powers lies in the proper use of ‘the law of attraction’. In simple terms, seek first a positive mindset and the rest will follow. However, there is a particular manner in which one should use this power. There is whole chapter in “Power attraction, Power Play” that speaks of power regulation. Do not over use it or under use it. Just be moderate in how you use it. This book can really come in handy for a particular type of persons. Examples include business entrepreneurs, life coaches, network marketers, self-improvement writers and content writers to mention just but a few. 

 

All this information trickles down to positive energy and how best to channel it towards your success. Being positive all the time is the only way to achieve your desires. This has been elaborated more in “Power Attracting, Power Play”. 

However, there is also a section on how to train the subconscious individuals to live positively in this book. This section is basically meant for life coaches or simple mentors who want to teach their subjects on positive thinking skills. All in all, “Power attracting, Power Play” is a must read for anyone in power and would like to know more about the Dominating Rationale plus positive thinking.                

What to Learn from the Positive Thinking Series?

At times, we reach a point where it seems that life has pushed us to the wall. These are the times when everything around us starts crumbing down. The only way to get up and move on is by mastering positive energy. It will help you turn the tables and rebuild all that had been torn down. One thing is for sure, negativity is the biggest hindrance of success in our lives. It can be brought about by a lot of factors among them being rejection. The one word that describes rejection is ‘no’. A good example is when one is planning to start a business. It tends to get difficult when everybody you approach for some kind of help say no. Some might even through in the towel. In such cases, one should use the ‘no’ to gain more momentum to further fulfill your desires. This can only be achieved by channeling positive energy.

 

This is exactly what the 5 eBooks that make up the Positive Thinking series are all about. They contain teachings on how to live a positive life, free from negativity. The trick lies in your mindset. These books contain a variety of tips on how to set the perfect positive mindset for success. To start with, they contain each and every detail related to positive energy; how to generate it. These books go ahead to explain how one can channel this energy towards accomplishing your dreams.

 

Still on positive mindsets, the Positive Thinking Series contain tips on how best to produce positive imagery into your mind. Normally, the brain tends to get very creative. One is therefore expected to generate positive images in the brain for a positive mindset. This can only be done by concentrating on the good things in life and ignoring the negativity. Finally, this series goes to an extent of explaining how to manifesting the positive energy into the real world. It is one thing to generate positive energy, but it is another to use it.   

The good thing with these eBooks is that they have sections where they base their teaching on the recent times. This is the fast pace lifestyle that we live due to the increase in technological powers. They go to an extent of teaching on how to properly adapt to the Internet world. In addition to this, they also describe how much marketing has changed in relation to the 21^st century. Generally, this series shows us how best to create success and happiness in the modern time through positive living.

Self-Discovery Series—Balancing the 4 Quadrants of Life

“Balancing the 4 Quadrants of Life” is one of the books that make up the Self-Discovery series. This particular book deals with the life quadrants and how one can use them to better his or her life. These quadrants all add up to two things; our actions and attitude, of which are brought about by our words and thoughts. What happens is that we absorb information, process it in our brain and talk about them. This way, our attitude towards that particular topic is shown by our attitude.

 

Generally, this will influence the manner in which we will behave in the quadrants. Spirit, mental, emotional and physical are the life quadrants. According to “Balancing the 4 Quadrants of Life”, 3 of these quadrants influence the outcome of the fourth one. It claims that the physical quadrant is influenced by how well the spiritual, mental and physical quadrants are. The physical is the one quadrant that is visible to all those around us. This is why people get judgmental when we do not develop the other quadrants. They always notice that something is wrong with our physical quadrant. Therefore, we should careful to improve one our three quadrants knowing that the fourth will come automatically.  

 

According to the book, our mental quadrant is more of a consumer. This is because it takes in information using the senses; sight, smell, taste, hearing and touch. One cannot control the information we take in but we can control how we use it. This is the only way in which one can control his or her mental quadrant. Use the inner voice to do this, also known as conscious. Still in relation to this quadrant, the words we utter as a result to our mental consumption influence our future. We should try our level best to dwell on the positive rather than the negative.

 

As for the emotional quadrant, it is made up of feelings. According to the Self-discovery series e-book, these feelings are just but stored memory of past events. We normally see them in form of mental pictures and thoughts. We normally reflect this through our actions and talk. Faith is the major aspect of our spiritual quadrant. We normally show faith in whatever we speak or do. Generally, all these quadrants affect the physical quadrant. In the book, it is said that we should however balance all the quadrants. An imbalance may lead to a weak physical self.      

Self-Discovery Series—What Can It Teach You?

The Self-Discovery Series is a series of e-books that are all about knowing who oneself is. There are a total of six e-Books in the series namely: Polarities, Enneagrams Mystery, 9 Personality Types, Conscious Blitz, 4 Quadrants of Life and Balancing Truth Love Power. Basically, this series acts as a guide through the journey of self-discovery. They describe all the aspects that make up one’s personality and how to discover them. Not many are in a position to efficiently describe themselves. It takes another person to effectively describe the characters basing on pure observation. However, there are particular ways in which one can fully analyze himself and correct the wrong traits in him. This should be done in order to improve communication skills between them and those around him or her. 

 

Basically, these e-Books deal with human psychology. This is what helps people to discover their inner-selves. “9 Personality Types” is the main book discussing the types of personality types there are in the world. According to the book, there are 9 personality types. Everyone has a particular personality that describes him or her. Each of these personalities has a good and bad side. This is why we are all different though some of us are alike to some extent. Due to this familiarity in terms of personality, such persons tend to confined in each other hence forming some distinct groups. The book however helps you discover your personality and how to improve on it. 

 

There are characters that hope to be like others. This next to impossible no matter the amount of money you invest in it. The two of you have different personalities that can never rhyme. As a result of trying too hard, most people end up frustrated. These e-Books help you deal with such a problem if you are such a person.

On the other hand, the same books also speak of other aspect of life such as the life quadrants. “4 Quadrants of Life” specifically speaks about this. It outlines the four quadrants and how they function. The eBook goes to an extent of describing how the four quadrants are related to each other and how they get to affect one’s personality. Another book in the series that talks of life aspects is “Balancing Love Truth Power”. These three things are the main components of our day to day lives. This particular e-Book describes how one can balance the three for a stress-free life.