Showing posts with label Choices. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Choices. Show all posts

Friday, 13 June 2025

The Tale of the Unfinished Tower


In a lively town by the sea, there was a mason named Paolo who was known for his talent but also for his tendency to avoid responsibility when things went wrong. Paolo was skilled in his craft, and the townspeople admired his beautiful stonework, but many whispered that he was unreliable when projects ran into trouble. Whenever mistakes were made or work was delayed, Paolo would always blame others—the weather, the tools, or the workers under him—never taking responsibility for his own actions.

 

One day, the mayor of the town announced a grand project: a tall lighthouse to guide ships safely into the harbor. It was to be the tallest tower in the region, a symbol of the town’s prosperity and an essential beacon for sailors. The mayor entrusted Paolo with the task of building the lighthouse, knowing that his skill with stone was unmatched. Paolo eagerly accepted, seeing the project as an opportunity to showcase his talents and earn more fame.

 

Work on the lighthouse began, and at first, everything went smoothly. Paolo directed the workers, and the tower began to rise, its stone walls gleaming in the sun. But as the tower grew taller, so did the challenges. The stones became heavier, and the winds at higher elevations made the work more dangerous and difficult.

 

One day, as the workers were hoisting a large stone into place, the pulley system broke, sending the stone crashing to the ground. Several other stones were damaged in the process, and the tower’s progress was delayed. When the mayor came to inspect the site and asked Paolo what had happened, Paolo quickly blamed the workers. “They were careless,” he said. “It wasn’t my fault.”

 

The mayor frowned but accepted Paolo’s explanation, trusting that he would ensure the mistake was corrected.

 

As the weeks went on, more problems arose. The mortar in some sections of the tower began to crack, and Paolo’s measurements for the next level of stones were off, causing a misalignment in the tower’s structure. Each time an issue occurred, Paolo deflected blame. When the mortar cracked, he blamed the supplier for providing poor-quality materials. When the tower’s alignment was off, he blamed the tools, saying they weren’t accurate enough. But never once did Paolo take responsibility for overseeing the work closely or ensuring that everything was done properly.

 

One evening, after another day of delays, Paolo returned to the site alone, frustrated by the problems plaguing the project. As he stood at the base of the unfinished tower, an old sailor approached him. The sailor had lived in the town for many years and had seen many projects come and go. He looked up at the tower and then at Paolo, who appeared lost in thought.

 

“Seems the tower’s been giving you some trouble,” the sailor said.

 

Paolo sighed. “Yes, but it’s not my fault. The workers are careless, the materials are faulty, and the tools aren’t good enough.”

 

The sailor raised an eyebrow. “That may be so,” he said, “but I’ve been watching this project from the docks. It seems to me that when things go wrong, you’re always quick to point the finger at someone else. A good captain takes responsibility for his ship, even when the storm isn’t his fault.”

 

Paolo frowned, unsure of what the sailor was getting at.

 

The sailor continued, “When I’m out at sea and something goes wrong with my ship, I can’t blame the wind or the waves. I have to adjust my sails, make repairs, and guide my crew. If I fail to do that, the ship doesn’t just suffer—it sinks. Accountability isn’t about avoiding blame; it’s about taking responsibility and making things right.”

 

Paolo was silent for a moment, realizing that the sailor was right. He had been so focused on protecting his reputation and avoiding blame that he hadn’t taken responsibility for the problems on the project. If he had been more diligent in overseeing the work, if he had taken the time to fix mistakes rather than blame others, the tower might have been further along—and stronger.

 

The next morning, Paolo returned to the construction site with a new resolve. He gathered the workers and apologized for blaming them for the delays. He took responsibility for the mistakes that had been made and promised to oversee the project more closely from then on. He personally inspected the materials, adjusted the plans to fix the alignment issues, and worked alongside the crew to ensure that everything was done correctly.

 

With Paolo taking accountability for the project, the work improved dramatically. The workers respected him more for admitting his mistakes and working to correct them. Slowly but surely, the lighthouse rose higher and higher until it was finally completed. The tower stood tall and strong, a beacon of light guiding ships safely into the harbor.

 

When the mayor came to inspect the finished lighthouse, he praised Paolo for his hard work and dedication. And though Paolo felt pride in his accomplishment, he knew that the real lesson he had learned was the importance of accountability. By taking responsibility for his actions and guiding the project with care, he had not only completed the lighthouse but also earned the respect of the entire town.

 

Moral:

 

Accountability means taking responsibility for our actions, even when things go wrong. When we own our mistakes and work to correct them, we gain respect, improve ourselves, and ultimately succeed in our endeavors.



Friday, 8 November 2024

Why Didn't They Tell Us Happiness Is a Choice?


A few lessons time teaches us are difficult to accept. The biggest is probably that the most important, wonderful, and influential people in our lives will sometimes be taken away from us. Older folks will tell you that you never get over the pain of losing a loved one. You try to focus on all that person's great memories and good qualities.

 

In other words, you choose to focus on good things rather than obsess over not having that person in your life anymore. You make a choice. Instead of reacting, you take a proactive approach. You act on the memory of that person positively rather than negatively.

 

Another Choice You Can Make in Life Is to Be Happy or to Be Sad Most of the Time

 

The earlier in life you can figure this out, the better. This knowledge doesn't come to everyone. You may know someone who doesn't realize that happiness is a choice. Some people live their entire lives embracing negativity and believing that the world is out to get them.

 

Let's imagine for a second that you are that type of person. 

 

Nothing good ever happens to you. If it does, it's by pure chance. Life will certainly return to its old routine of knocking you down and kicking you while you're there. Every person, thing, and experience you encounter will undoubtedly cause stress, strife, sadness, and other negative emotions.

 

Living life as this poor soul, one day, your company decides to part ways with you. You're fired. It's not that you were a particularly terrible employee. It's just that the company is downsizing, and you've got to go. This doesn't surprise you, of course. The passage of time has taught you repeatedly that you are the whipping boy of the universe.

 

Now Imagine for a Moment That, for the First Time in Your Life, You Realize You Have a Choice

 

You can view this as just another of the many mistreatments life has dealt you. Or you can look at this as a wonderful opportunity. Now you've got time to start that project you've always dreamed about. You see the silver lining in the cloud rather than just another rainy day.

 

We all have choices. Every day we're given the ability to steer our life in any direction we desire. We can accept that life is tough and there's not much sense in making an effort. Or we can now decide to take action and start doing the things that give us meaning and purpose. Don't live most of your life and discover that you can choose to be or feel anything you want. That's your choice right now. Embrace that idea and start living your best life today.