The Twice-a-Day Ritual That De-Clutters Your Mind, Helps You Sleep Better, Relieves Stress, and Boosts Mental Focus

Scott Bea is a clinical psychologist who understands how clutter can wreck your mental and physical health. He tells us that visual clutter, anything that falls within your line of sight but isn't necessary, cranks up your production of cortisol. That means more stress and anxiety.

 

Clutter negatively affects your self-esteem level, even if you don't consciously believe it's that big of a problem. Mental and physical clutter kills your ability to focus and be productive and can lead to sleep loss.

 

Physical clutter in your environment can lead to mental clutter. 

 

Your senses are constantly trying to deal with everything they detect in your messy, disorganized space. This fogs up your brain and gets it working overtime. When you remove visual, physical, and mental clutter from your life, you gain better control of not only your mental abilities. You also boost your self-esteem and feel good about what you've accomplished.

 

The Downside of a Cluttered Mind

 

Before we discuss how you can do some spring cleaning in your mind, let's get a little negative. Sometimes understanding the downside of a situation can motivate you to take action. Here are a few of the unfortunate symptoms of a cluttered mind.

 

• You constantly focus on the negative and have difficulty seeing things positively.

• You worry about things you have no control over.

• It isn't easy focusing your attention and having clarity of thought.

• You are easily and frequently distracted.

• Your brain never shuts down and is always processing information from multiple topics and lists.

• A cluttered mind can lead to multiple sleep problems.

• It's common to feel physically drained, mentally confused, and unproductive.

 

When your mind is cluttered with unnecessary "stuff," a lot of energy is required to deal with it. This can make you feel run down and fatigued. You don't feel like doing anything or dealing with anything.

 

Don't worry; there is a simple solution you can use twice a day to sleep better and relieve the stress your mental clutter is causing. You will find it easier to focus, and you'll be more productive as well. Here's what you need to do.

• Write it down when you wake up.

• Write it down when you go to bed.

What is the "it" that you should be writing down? Your thoughts. Your feelings. Anything that's going on in your head. In the morning, write out a game plan for the day. Prioritize important things and keep everything else off of your list.

 

At night, read over what you wrote that morning. Then unload your mind. Back up the mental dump truck and get it all out. If random thoughts bother you during the day and are still on your mind, let them stand up and be recognized.

 

Writing out your thoughts is such a powerful way to clear your mind. When you do this regularly in the morning and at night, you'll find you sleep better, and you're more productive during the day. This won't stop your ceaseless inner chatter. It gives you control over it while ensuring a lot of mental clutter doesn't take up full-time residency in your mind.

A Fresh Look at Self-Care with 10 Practices to Get You Started

Self-care should be an integral part of anyone’s life as it is one of the key ways to better health, emotional wellbeing and stress reduction. We can take intentional steps as we practice self-care for our mind, body and spirit. 

 

Self-care isn’t just about spa days, bubble baths, or treating yourself to an occasional dessert, even though these actions are certainly a part of it. It’s about deeply understanding what you need to thrive emotionally, physically, and mentally. 

 

It’s the ongoing practice of prioritizing your wellbeing so that you can live more vibrantly and authentically. It is often said that you must give yourself permission for self-care and that is because it is an intentional and deliberate action that is ultimately the responsibility of the individual. 

 

Self-care encompasses a wide range of activities and practices, including:

 

• Physical self-care: Exercising, eating nutritious food, and ensuring you get enough rest.

• Emotional self-care: Engaging in activities that help you process your emotions, such as journaling or speaking to a therapist.

• Mental self-care: Stimulating your mind with new knowledge, reading, creative projects, or simply taking a break from work to prevent burnout.

• Spiritual self-care: Connecting with practices that give you a sense of purpose and peace, such as meditation, prayer, or spending time in nature.

Self-Care Benefits

 

• Enhances Productivity and Focus

• Reinforces Self-Worth and Self-Love

• Helps you manage stress

• Benefits emotional, mental and physical health

• In its most simple terms, it is an act of prioritizing yourself

 Breaking Down Barriers to Self-Care

 

Despite understanding its importance, many people struggle to integrate self-care into their daily lives. Common barriers include:

 

• Guilt: Many people feel guilty taking time for themselves, especially when they have responsibilities to family, work, or friends.

• Time constraints: The perception that there’s “no time” for self-care.

• Cultural norms: Societal pressures often glorify overworking and undervalue rest.

 

The first step to overcoming these barriers is reframing the way we view self-care. It’s not an optional activity for when you’ve finished everything else, it’s an integral part of being able to do everything else. Self-care should be seen as non-negotiable.

10 Self-Care Practices

1. Take the First Step Towards Self-Care

 

If self-care feels like a foreign concept or an added burden, start small. It could be as simple as dedicating 10 minutes of your day to something you enjoy. Over time, as you begin to experience the positive effects, you’ll start to see self-care not as a task but as an act of self-respect and love.

2. Nature Walks

 

Take a walk in a local park, forest, or even your backyard. Walking in nature helps to clear your mind and reconnect with the world outside. Studies show that a walk of only 20 minutes can lower stress levels and improve your mental health.

3. Mindful Morning Ritual

 

Start your day with a morning ritual that centers you. This could include five minutes of deep breathing, gentle stretching, or journaling about your intentions for the day. This practice helps you enter the day with a calm mind and sets a positive tone for whatever comes your way.

4. Take Your Pet to The Park

 

Our pets are some of our nearest and dearest friends, and spending time with them is a way to care for ourselves as well. You and your pet will benefit from the change of scenery and have a chance to forget your worries as you connect. The park can help you both get more exercise, get some air in your lungs, and meet new people and animals. 

5. Organize Your Catch-All Drawer

 

This is one of those beneficial projects you can do in tiny increments to promote peace of mind and a slow release of tension and clutter. 

 

To pick away at your most cluttered drawer in increments, you can:

 

• Get a drawer organizer.

• Look for items that should be attached to a ring, clip, lanyard, or similar item.

• Remove a few items at a time to clean, lubricate, polish, repair, or degrease them.

• Collect thumbtacks, coins, paper clips, tape, magnets, string, clips, and other small items that need a mini organizer. 

6. Stretch And Relax On Your Mat

 

Make the most of your stretching routine by researching stretching techniques that make you feel good without straining your muscles. You can do very small shoulder stretches, moderate whole-body stretches, or deeper ones you already have experience with. Take a 10-minute rest on your back after your routine for deeper relaxation. 

7. Schedule A Spa Day Or Massage

 

Whether you love facials, mud or clay treatments, deep tissue massage, or body wraps, scheduling something will help you unwind and take better care of yourself. Spur-of-the-moment experiences are always good too. 

8. Sleep An Extra Hour At Night

 

An hour more sleep has been shown to improve the health of young participants who got at least 43 more minutes per night in one study by Penn State researchers. Try eating dinner an hour earlier with food that promotes sleep, a relaxing evening routine and go to bed earlier to get that extra hour. 

9. Take A 15-Minute Nap

 

Many people would be amazed at the power of a fifteen-minute nap. According to Mayo Clinic, “Keep naps short. A 20- to 30-minute nap is ideal. Try not to snooze more than 30 minutes on a regular basis. The longer you nap, the more likely you are to feel groggy afterward. Take naps in the early afternoon. Napping after 3 p.m. can make it harder for you to sleep soundly at night. Factors such as your need for sleep, sleeping schedule, age and medicine use also can play roles in figuring out the best time of day to nap. Create a restful space. Nap in a quiet, dark place with a comfortable room temperature. Limit distractions such as TVs, computers, phones and other devices.”

10. Read A Book Or Magazine You Love

 

Few things refresh your mind, relax you and help you care for yourself like reading a book you love or a magazine that truly interests you. 

Final Thoughts

 

Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential. It’s the foundation that allows you to show up fully in all aspects of your life. It fuels your energy, enhances your resilience, and reinforces the belief that you deserve care.

 

By investing time and effort into your well-being, you pave the way for a richer, more fulfilling life. Embrace self-care as a gift to yourself, and watch how it transforms your mindset, relationships, and overall quality of life.

References

 

Stock, A.A., et al. (2019) Effects of sleep extension on sleep duration, sleepiness, and blood pressure in college students. Sleep Health. doi.org/10.1016/j.sleh.2019.10.003.

 

https://www.news-medical.net/news/20191120/Study-Just-one-extra-hour-of-sleep-can-provide-health-benefits-for-college-students.aspx

 

https://www.betterup.com/blog/self-care-practices

 

3 Ways to Make Sure You Get All the Sleep Your Brain Needs to Stay Healthy

It seems like insomnia is a modern epidemic. Whether you deal with insomnia or you are chronically sleep-deprived, it’s likely that poor sleep is affecting your performance.

 

Sleep deprivation feels terrible. You will have noticed that if you’ve had a bad night’s sleep, you feel sluggish, heavy, and slow, as though you’re trying to walk through syrup. You’re clumsy and confused, you drop things, and nothing seems to go right.

 

As well as making you feel bad, a chronic lack of sleep can have physical effects on your brain. Sleep deprivation impairs your ability to process and store memories and can even increase your risk of Alzheimer’s disease. Two proteins associated with Alzheimer's, beta amyloid, and the tau protein, increase with chronic poor sleep. There is some evidence in laboratory tests on mice that sleep helps to clear these proteins from the brain. 

 

The good news is that there are things you can do to improve your sleep health to keep your brain in tip-top shape.

 

1. Find Out Your Own Best Sleep Levels

 

Everyone has their own individual sleep needs. Famously, British politicians Winston Churchill and Margaret Thatcher needed very little sleep, but only getting four or five hours a night is not recommended for most people. Whether you need seven hours or ten, find out what is enough sleep for you. 

 

Enough sleep means waking up without needing an alarm, feeling rested and energetic, and not needing coffee to get you through the day. 

 

2. Improve your Sleep Hygiene

 

Studies have shown that the hour or two before bedtime has a powerful effect on the quality of your sleep. Schedule in some proper downtime, and stop using blue light-emitting devices like smartphones, computers, tablets, and television an hour or so before you plan to go to bed. Read a book, take a relaxing bath, or listen to calming music—or all three—instead. 

 

3. Don’t Lie There Trying to Sleep

 

If you can’t sleep after ten minutes, get out of bed and do something else. Lying in bed, getting stressed because you can’t sleep is a recipe for poor sleep and insomnia. You’re also likely to start brooding, mulling over problems or running over the events of the day. 

 

Get up do something relaxing like reading or meditating until you feel sleepy. It’s okay to do this more than once, even multiple times. You’re trying to train your brain to think of bed as a sleeping place, not a thinking place. 

 

Improving your sleep will help you to feel calmer, be more productive, and may lower your risk of Alzheimer’s later in life.