6 Ways to Add Intensity to Your Life

You know that high energy, positivity, and enthusiasm are the things that will propel you towards success, right? But how do you keep your intensity levels high day in, day out? What can you do to stay motivated and get yourself the life you want?

 

Here are 6 ways you can add intensity to your life right now. 

 

1. Choose Intensity

 

One of the most powerful things you can do is to act enthusiastically, even if you’re not feeling it. Choose to live intensely, behave as if you had that level of intensity, and before you know it your energy is high, your enthusiasm is infectious, and you’re doing it!

 

2. Make Time for Your Passion

 

It’s easy to let the days go by thinking you don’t have time to improve your running or your drawing or learn that language. But if you make the commitment to focus on your passion for just fifteen or twenty minutes a day, you’ll find your enthusiasm rising. You’ll be enjoying life intensely. 

 

3. Take Care of Yourself

 

Proper self-care is vital if you want to increase the intensity in your life. Keeping your energy and motivation high is easier if you’re eating well, making sure you get enough sleep and getting some regular exercise. 

 

Prioritize you and see how it affects your energy levels. 

 

4. Be Kind to Yourself

 

Learning to practice self-compassion is key for adding intensity to your life. Being kind to yourself means noticing how you feel, it means cutting yourself some slack and pulling back on the judging. Notice your self-talk and see if it’s sapping or building your intensity. 

 

5. Practice Meditation

 

Intensity and meditation might seem like odd bedfellows, but think about it. Research has shown that meditation and mindfulness practice help to increase brain function. Regular meditation practice, even if it’s only for ten or fifteen minutes a day, has been shown in increase grey matter in your brain. Think of the potential for those extra brain cells!

 

Meditation will also help lower your stress levels and increase your self-compassion. You’ll be more resilient, have more energy, and more enthusiasm. 

 

6. Notice the Good Things

 

Noticing and appreciating the good things in your life helps to rewire your mindset from negative to positive. If you see the good around you, you’ll come to expect that things will go well, and more good things will flow to you. 

 

Focusing on success and what is going well in your life helps to keep that intensity level high!

Stuck for ideas? Here are Some Ideas to Unstick You!

Take a Shower 

 

You may laugh - but most entrepreneurs find that taking a shower (or running) help them come up with new ideas. 

 

When we focus intently on a task at hand we tend to see only one part of the big, sprawling picture in front of us. It's when we get away from the chore of idea generation, that our brains start to work with associations. 

 

You may find that when you run or cycle, you begin to see common ground. It happens all the time that you see bloggers who write posts such as "10 things marketing departments need to learn from triathletes" or "How to do business like Richard Branson by thinking like Arnold Schwarzenegger". 

 

These ideas come from associations we have - but then the shower afterwards engulfs us in a field of negative ions. The pleasurable response to these ions injects dopamine into our systems, and dopamine, combined with a positive state of mind helps encourage the flow of positive ideas. 

 

Mentally Model Yourself After Someone Else 

 

Ever hear the expression "What would MacGyver do if he were here now?" It's mentally associating yourself with someone who you believe would have the answer. It doubles your creative workload, because it also breaks down barriers that you might otherwise believe existed to prevent you from finding the right solution. 

 

If, in the TV program, MacGyver could use a matchstick to escape jail, then if you think like him, you should at least be able to find a way to get out of your locked bathroom without resorting to the embarrassment of shouting out the window to your next door neighbour. 

 

Get Out of the House 

 

Another reason running and travel work so well to stimulate ideas is that by getting out of the house we move and take in more oxygen. Increased oxygen helps boost brain function, and a change of setting helps the brain start react in different ways to wards different stimuli. 

 

Accept Your Bad Ideas 

 

Yes, there's a dark side to this super power of awesome ideas. It's the really stupid, impulsive ideas that come with them. 

 

In reality, there are no really stupid ideas. There is only the stupidity of acting on bad ideas without giving them enough forethought. Don't get down on yourself for having a bad idea - it's all part of the process. Just accept that - after examining the idea - it was a bad one. Ditch it and move on. 

Idea Tracking Tools

Got another great idea? Time to capture it and make it work for you. A notepad an pen is a great idea if you've just woken and don't have time to open up an electronic device, but if you want to really process ideas, there are a number of software apps that can help. 

Here's a few that range in both price and complexity: 

 

Evernote 

 

Evernote has both free and paid plans. There is little difference between them except for upload limits. The app is available on Windows and MAC and on smartphones. It allows users to clip articles for future reading, save images and PDFs and organize them into different notebooks and tag them according to how they might search for them. 

 

Evernote is hugely popular with people who work online, and writers, because you can build it as big as you want and everything is cross referenced. 

 

Wunderlist 

 

Wunderlist is what it says - a list. Sounds a bit dull, but this list can have tasks, subtasks and shared lists that make sharing your to-do list a snap. Y might also want to add a due date and have a pop up and/or an email to remind you of your due date for that task. 

Wunderlist's efficiency is a direct result of its simplicity. 

 

Trello 

 

This is more of a team app - suitable for business teams who work remotely and need to coordinate tasks between themselves to complete a project. It's a much more intensive tool than Evernote or Wunderlist, but it makes it easy to see at a glance where ideas are being worked on and who is working on them. 

 

Thinking Rock 

 

This is a piece of software from an Australian company who have taken David Allen's Getting Things Done idea and turned it into an idea capture and processing workflow. The software is free and open source - available from Sourceforge.net. 

 

Notes 

 

It's on every iPhone and iPad by default. What most people don't know is that you can connect the two via iCloud and add check boxes so that notes and lists created on one can be seen by the other. It's a simple, easy to use app that's with you on your phone whenever you want. 

 

Whiteboard 

 

No, it's not a digital app, but if you place a simple whiteboard in your office, you can jump up from your chair and actually write on it! Yes, some people are easily amused, but the act of physically writing ideas can make them stick a lot more than typing them out. Just ask any copywriter who has handwritten hundreds of copies of classic sales letters to assimilate their principles. 

 

Which method works best for you will vary according to your needs, and you may even find it more productive to use a mix of idea capture apps. 

Effective Brainstorming

The pressure to come up with ideas can be overwhelming. Constant content creation seems to be a requisite of the workplace these days. There's a demand from your boss to find new ways to improve the workplace, your college lecturer wants to see a different approach than anyone else has shown, or you're an entrepreneur and you recognize that without flagging yourself as someone who stands out different to the rest, you're going to sink among all the other "me too" product creators. 

 

Can you create a mental spark of new ideas as simply as you see a spark when you touch two wires together? The answer is - you can. 

 

The first thing you need to do is quit thinking of ideas as things that just happen. You've heard of brainstorming, right? That's a situation where people decide to cognitively generate ideas. They make the decision that they will create ideas within a timeframe - not that they will sit around the office for days, weeks or months waiting on some mysterious Muse to appear and give them a sign. 

 

How Do We Brainstorm Effectively? 

 

First, write down all known facts and assumptions about the subject at hand. Then for each fact or assumption, ask "what if...?" Take the opposing view in your question. 

 

"What if something else could create the same result?" 

 

"What if we didn't have a specific resource, then how would we create this?" 

 

"What if everyone called in sick one day, then how would we minimize the damage?" 

 

"What if I had only 10 minutes to do this - is there a template I could use over and over again to speed things up?" 

 

Always challenge assumptions. 

 

Strip Things Away 

 

Often, we get caught up in finding new ideas to add to the existing processes we have in place. But it's as valid to think about cutting away ideas as it is creating new ones. You might have two different products in mind to create, and two different websites to market them through. But by focusing on cutting out ideas you may discover that there is a core group who require both products - and then build just one website aimed at that core group. 

 

Ideas that take away work are sometimes more beneficial than those that do. 

 

Use Different Discovery Tools 

 

Many people swear by mind maps. Some prefer a word processor document - and others prefer spreadsheets. Get away from your comfort level by using a different medium to dump your ideas out into. The process will feel different and make your brain respond differently - and often more creatively. 

If You Want More Meaningful Relationships, Schedule Them

Do you have a day planner? Do you have a calendar or schedule where you plan out your activities? A lot of people plan their careers. They have a virtual or physical planner where they keep track of their work commitments. They take their job seriously and know that if they schedule their professional life, they can be more successful than if they take it as it comes.

 

Unfortunately, many people don't do that with their personal lives.

 

That's too bad. We've known for a long time that the human brain loves to be given marching orders. It was designed to respond favorably to order and habitual behavior. If you want deeper connections, you should schedule the experiences that build and maintain them.

 

Who Do You Want a More Meaningful Relationship With?

 

It's been proven that deep relationships make you less likely to develop disease or become sick. Your mind, body, and emotions benefit. The more people you truly understand on a deep level and connect with in a meaningful way, the happier and healthier you will be.

 

This means that when you connect with someone in a big way, you get a significant boost to your well-being. Who wouldn't like that in their lives? To experience all these wonderful benefits of a healthy social life, ask yourself who you can connect with on a deeper level.

 

Once you have that person in mind, sit down and ask yourself some questions. What do they like to do? What values are important to them? Do they like traveling or knitting, or reading? What vices do they have that they wish they could defeat? What are their big goals?

 

If you don't know the answers to these questions, or at least have some general idea of their response, what can you do to discover those answers? In many cases, it doesn't make sense to come out and ask big questions like this. You can spend more time with that person in experiences and activities they enjoy. This helps you indirectly learn that information.

 

Schedule time for those activities. Talk a lot, and listen. Remember your ultimate goal, to get to know the person better. Be flexible and understand that a deep connection might mean a relationship with someone that's unlike you in many ways. Opposites often attract. 

 

Keep these things in mind and schedule the time and emotional energy required to develop a deep and meaningful relationship. Offer a time and environment that's comfortable to them, be yourself, and do this regularly to form a strong, healthy connection.