Showing posts with label Mindfulness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mindfulness. Show all posts

Friday, 5 September 2025

6 Things to Do When You Get Bad News


The first several minutes after you hear bad news can whirl you around like a tornado. Your mind spins and you can barely even catch a breath. If someone is speaking the news to you, your pounding heart may begin to drown them out. It’s just too much. 


There are good ways to handle bad news, and I will share these tips with you in this article. Try them and see if you don’t recover more quickly from bad news. 


Steady Your Breathing and Don’t Allow Yourself to Panic

 

When you get bad news, it sucks the life right out of you. Don’t panic. Instead, pause and take a few deep breaths. Center yourself. Take a walk as this can help ground you and calm you down. This will give you clarity and the energy to keep moving forward. 


Don’t Avoid the Negative Emotions You Feel, but Don’t Let Them Overwhelm You

 

Attempting to avoid negative feelings may cause more harm than good. Allow yourself to feel the negative emotions as a natural reaction. Emotions are not your enemy. Let yourself react in whatever way it will, as far as emotions go. 

 

Healthy versus unhealthy emotional reactions include:

 

  • Healthy: My heart is heavy, and I feel sad.
  • Unhealthy: My life as I know it is over. We’re doomed.
  • Healthy: I’m angry about this news.
  • Unhealthy: Screw life, let’s just give up.

 

Concentrate on Your Physical Well-Being

 

Keeping your calm and maintaining your perspective depends largely on your physical well-being. Try to be as kind as possible to yourself when experiencing bad news. Get sufficient exercise and sleep and avoid taking drugs or drinking alcohol in excess. 


Reach Out to Others for Reassurance and Advice

 

When you feel overwhelmed, vulnerable and threatened, it’s natural to reach out to someone in your social network for reassurance, advice or a fresh perspective. Be sure to choose a person who will listen to your feelings and know positive ways to respond. You don’t want to choose someone who will make you feel worse.

 

Being with other people will allow you to more easily work through your feelings and thoughts, to regain a calm perspective. You can also enjoy engaging in painting, writing or spending quality time out in the natural world. 


Put Everything in Perspective

 

If you tend to hold onto negative feelings for too long, reach inside and attempt to put the situation into proper perspective. Accept good aspects as well as bad ones, in the situation. 

 

Write down things you feel grateful for and remind yourself about the things that are most important to you. This helps you to realize that it’s not really the end of the world just because you’ve received bad news. 


Develop an Action Plan

 

Draw up a plan of how to get your life back on track if the bad news has affected parts of your personal life. Set a deadline when you want to be fully back on track, and no longer dwelling on bad news. 

 

Only use practical plans in moving forward. This creates new opportunities to discover fresh ideas based on those plans. You’ll appreciate the planning when you’re back on track mentally and physically. 


Conclusion

 

The framework created by these positive reactions to bad news will help you to triage whatever the rest of this year and beyond will bring. No one is perfect in their responses to bad news but striving to confront the negative feelings and ideas that directly bother you is much better than allowing them to fester.

 

Ask for help whenever you need it from a trusted person, to help yourself in healing sooner and not later.


Reference

 

How to Cope With Bad News | Psychology Today

 


Tuesday, 2 September 2025

Your Health Matters: 10 Strategies to Reconnect with Wellness


Mental health is just as important as physical and spiritual health, and together they all make up a whole: wellness. 

 

When we think of "wellness," many people picture a serene yoga studio, stacks of vitamins, or perhaps someone doing deep breathing exercises in the middle of a nature retreat. While all those images capture facets of wellness, the concept is much deeper, more nuanced, and profoundly personal. Wellness isn’t just the absence of illness, it’s a full-bodied, multidimensional approach to living that seeks balance across many areas of life.

 

Wellness is a conscious, deliberate process of making choices toward a healthy and fulfilling life. It’s not a static state but a dynamic practice of growth and adaptation. At its core, wellness emphasizes harmony within ourselves and our surroundings. 

 

To understand wellness deeply, it’s helpful to explore its core dimensions: physical, emotional, social, intellectual, spiritual, environmental, occupational, and financial wellness. Each of these areas intertwines to create a holistic sense of wellbeing.

 

10 Strategies to Reconnect with Wellness 

 

1. Exercise 

 

In order to have a healthy state of mind, it is important to always take care of your body, too. By just taking even fifteen minutes a day to exercise, it can go a long way. This can be anything from going for a walk to running on the treadmill or lifting weights. 

 

If you do this for 15 minutes or an hour, you are going to see a difference afterwards due to the serotonin and endorphins your body releases. Those chemicals can lead to a better state of mind, and even affect your spiritual health, and as a whole, you will feel much more reconnected and refreshed. 

 

2. Eat Healthy

 

To keep your mind healthy, we not only need to take care of our body by exercising, but also by making sure we are feeding it healthy foods. Processed foods can make us feel sluggish, and the amount of salt, sugar, and fat in those foods is not good for your physical health either. 

 

Some healthy foods that are good for your body and brain include fruits, nuts, vegetables, and protein. Our gut health is the key to keeping our mind, body and soul connected to wellness. 

 

Instead of eating potato chips, try eating some fruit, or nuts that are high in protein such as almonds or cashews. By curving those unhealthy cravings and feeding our body healthy fruits and vegetables, we can appreciate nature’s natural snacks and reconnect with overall wellness. 

 

3. Meditate

 

The idea of meditating to some people can seem silly or strange, and maybe even uncomfortable if you have never done it. However, if you wake up in the morning and want to start your day off in a good state of mind, it can be very beneficial. 

 

This can be done by sitting in a quiet space, relaxing your muscles, and by practicing breathing exercises while turning off your thoughts the best you can. 

 

This can be a simple seven-to-ten-minute process that will go a long way. After those short minutes are over, you will feel ready to take on the day. This can also be done at night before bed, when you want to calm your body and mind to get a good night’s sleep. No matter when you do it, meditation is a great way to improve the wellness of mind, body and spirit.

 

4. Make Time for Your Hobbies

 

While we are working adults and we spend most of our days on the clock, it is still important to make time for the things that make us happy, and even bring out our inner child. To reconnect with wellness, you should tap into hobbies that bring you joy and make you happy and to alleviate stress.

 

This could be anything from reading, playing a video game, writing in a journal, painting/drawing, playing a sport, or anything that makes you happy. By making time for our passions and hobbies, we will feel much happier and reconnected to wellness. 

 

5. Learn Something New

 

A strong way to reconnect with wellness is by going out of your comfort zone and trying something brand new. This can be uncomfortable at first, but in the end, you can at least be proud of yourself for giving it a try, and it may even become something important to you. 

 

Some ideas for trying something new can be anything from learning a new language, trying a new sport, or even going to a new coffee shop that you don’t normally go to. It can be anything—simple or big. This is a great way to improve your overall wellness. 

 

6. Show Gratitude 

 

There are many ways to practice gratitude, and by taking time each day to show gratitude to someone or even yourself, you can easily reconnect with wellness and happiness. Gratitude can be manifested in many different forms, especially by doing acts of kindness every day, or as often as you can. 

 

Tell someone you appreciate them, give them a hug, go to a shelter and volunteer, make a donation, and start looking at life through a more positive perspective. You will be surprised at how fast your life will shift into the light. 

 

7. Remember to have Compassion and Forgiveness 

 

This one can be a bit of a challenge if you are someone who does not forgive easily, but if you try to have compassion and forgiveness for yourself or others, the benefits for your overall happiness, wellbeing, and wellness are tremendous. We are not able to truly achieve wellness if we cannot forgive ourselves or others.

 

8. Help Others

 

By helping others overcome challenges and giving them advice on their own decisions and choices in their own lives, you are challenging yourself to become the best version of yourself, and to reconnect with your overall wellness. Helping others can be extremely beneficial for the people you help and also for yourself. 

 

Some examples of how you can help others include things like volunteering for a charity, offering to help elderly neighbors/family members with chores and errands, asking someone if they need assistance in buying food or essentials, they may not have the means for, and maybe even tutoring children and/or students in subjects you can help with.

 

9. Reflect

 

Sometimes it can be hard to make time to sit down and think about changes you want to make in your life—whether it’s due to having a busy schedule, or just not enough motivation. 

 

However, if you really want to challenge yourself to living the best life you want for yourself, it is important and essential that you challenge yourself every day, and that includes making the time to sit down, write out your goals and dreams, and reflect on what changes need to be made. 

 

10. Mindfulness

 

Just like the well-known saying goes, “think before you speak,” it is important to be more mindful. Being mindful is one of the best ways to challenge yourself to live your best life and reconnect with your overall wellness. 

 

Being mindful helps you stay connected to the present moment. Some great ways you can practice mindfulness before making any certain decisions can include practicing breathing exercises, reflecting on your day, connecting with nature, or journaling. The present moment is the most important time of your life because it is never going to be experienced again.

 

Final Thoughts

 

Remember, your mind, body, and soul are all connected and make up wellness as a whole. Take care of each one individually, and you will be able to live a happier, healthier life. Take control of your life again and get started now! 

 


Tuesday, 26 August 2025

A Fresh Look at Self-Care with 10 Practices to Get You Started


Self-care should be an integral part of anyone’s life as it is one of the key ways to better health, emotional wellbeing and stress reduction. We can take intentional steps as we practice self-care for our mind, body and spirit. 

 

Self-care isn’t just about spa days, bubble baths, or treating yourself to an occasional dessert, even though these actions are certainly a part of it. It’s about deeply understanding what you need to thrive emotionally, physically, and mentally. 

 

It’s the ongoing practice of prioritizing your wellbeing so that you can live more vibrantly and authentically. It is often said that you must give yourself permission for self-care and that is because it is an intentional and deliberate action that is ultimately the responsibility of the individual. 

 

Self-care encompasses a wide range of activities and practices, including:

 

  • Physical self-care: Exercising, eating nutritious food, and ensuring you get enough rest.
  • Emotional self-care: Engaging in activities that help you process your emotions, such as journaling or speaking to a therapist.
  • Mental self-care: Stimulating your mind with new knowledge, reading, creative projects, or simply taking a break from work to prevent burnout.
  • Spiritual self-care: Connecting with practices that give you a sense of purpose and peace, such as meditation, prayer, or spending time in nature.

Self-Care Benefits

 

  • Enhances Productivity and Focus
  • Reinforces Self-Worth and Self-Love
  • Helps you manage stress
  • Benefits emotional, mental and physical health
  • In its most simple terms, it is an act of prioritizing yourself

 Breaking Down Barriers to Self-Care

 

Despite understanding its importance, many people struggle to integrate self-care into their daily lives. Common barriers include:

 

  • Guilt: Many people feel guilty taking time for themselves, especially when they have responsibilities to family, work, or friends.
  • Time constraints: The perception that there’s “no time” for self-care.
  • Cultural norms: Societal pressures often glorify overworking and undervalue rest.

 

The first step to overcoming these barriers is reframing the way we view self-care. It’s not an optional activity for when you’ve finished everything else, it’s an integral part of being able to do everything else. Self-care should be seen as non-negotiable.


10 Self-Care Practices


1. Take the First Step Towards Self-Care

 

If self-care feels like a foreign concept or an added burden, start small. It could be as simple as dedicating 10 minutes of your day to something you enjoy. Over time, as you begin to experience the positive effects, you’ll start to see self-care not as a task but as an act of self-respect and love.


2. Nature Walks

 

Take a walk in a local park, forest, or even your backyard. Walking in nature helps to clear your mind and reconnect with the world outside. Studies show that a walk of only 20 minutes can lower stress levels and improve your mental health.


3. Mindful Morning Ritual

 

Start your day with a morning ritual that centers you. This could include five minutes of deep breathing, gentle stretching, or journaling about your intentions for the day. This practice helps you enter the day with a calm mind and sets a positive tone for whatever comes your way.


4. Take Your Pet to The Park

 

Our pets are some of our nearest and dearest friends, and spending time with them is a way to care for ourselves as well. You and your pet will benefit from the change of scenery and have a chance to forget your worries as you connect. The park can help you both get more exercise, get some air in your lungs, and meet new people and animals. 


5. Organize Your Catch-All Drawer

 

This is one of those beneficial projects you can do in tiny increments to promote peace of mind and a slow release of tension and clutter. 

 

To pick away at your most cluttered drawer in increments, you can:

 

  • Get a drawer organizer.
  • Look for items that should be attached to a ring, clip, lanyard, or similar item.
  • Remove a few items at a time to clean, lubricate, polish, repair, or degrease them.
  • Collect thumbtacks, coins, paper clips, tape, magnets, string, clips, and other small items that need a mini organizer. 

6. Stretch And Relax On Your Mat

 

Make the most of your stretching routine by researching stretching techniques that make you feel good without straining your muscles. You can do very small shoulder stretches, moderate whole-body stretches, or deeper ones you already have experience with. Take a 10-minute rest on your back after your routine for deeper relaxation. 


7. Schedule A Spa Day Or Massage

 

Whether you love facials, mud or clay treatments, deep tissue massage, or body wraps, scheduling something will help you unwind and take better care of yourself. Spur-of-the-moment experiences are always good too. 


8. Sleep An Extra Hour At Night

 

An hour more sleep has been shown to improve the health of young participants who got at least 43 more minutes per night in one study by Penn State researchers. Try eating dinner an hour earlier with food that promotes sleep, a relaxing evening routine and go to bed earlier to get that extra hour. 


9. Take A 15-Minute Nap

 

Many people would be amazed at the power of a fifteen-minute nap. According to Mayo Clinic, “Keep naps short. A 20- to 30-minute nap is ideal. Try not to snooze more than 30 minutes on a regular basis. The longer you nap, the more likely you are to feel groggy afterward. Take naps in the early afternoon. Napping after 3 p.m. can make it harder for you to sleep soundly at night. Factors such as your need for sleep, sleeping schedule, age and medicine use also can play roles in figuring out the best time of day to nap. Create a restful space. Nap in a quiet, dark place with a comfortable room temperature. Limit distractions such as TVs, computers, phones and other devices.”


10. Read A Book Or Magazine You Love

 

Few things refresh your mind, relax you and help you care for yourself like reading a book you love or a magazine that truly interests you. 


Final Thoughts

 

Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential. It’s the foundation that allows you to show up fully in all aspects of your life. It fuels your energy, enhances your resilience, and reinforces the belief that you deserve care.

 

By investing time and effort into your well-being, you pave the way for a richer, more fulfilling life. Embrace self-care as a gift to yourself, and watch how it transforms your mindset, relationships, and overall quality of life.


References

 

Stock, A.A., et al. (2019) Effects of sleep extension on sleep duration, sleepiness, and blood pressure in college students. Sleep Health. doi.org/10.1016/j.sleh.2019.10.003.

 

https://www.news-medical.net/news/20191120/Study-Just-one-extra-hour-of-sleep-can-provide-health-benefits-for-college-students.aspx

 

https://www.betterup.com/blog/self-care-practices

 


Tuesday, 15 July 2025

Self-Care's Role in Modern-Day Goal Setting


The demands of modern life are complex and constant. Many of us deal with electronic disturbances and distractions most of our day. Remote location employment is more common than ever, affecting our socialization skills. Political, economic, and cultural change can happen quickly.

 

These and other factors can derail your path to goal achievement, reminding us that we do not always control important influences. However, one thing you do have control over is how you take care of yourself. By prioritizing self-care, you empower yourself to keep moving towards goal achievement in the face of modern-day challenges.

 

Prioritize Mental Growth

 

Changing times and lifestyles can dramatically, not always positively, affect your goals. Because of any set of circumstances, a goal might not be as achievable now as it was only a short time ago. You might have to revise it in some way.

 

If you find that your goals are becoming less clear due to outdated mental abilities and inclinations, it's time to revise them to ensure achievement. Engaging in mental growth exercises not only keeps your mind sharp but also reassures you of your ability to adapt and revise your goals as needed, promoting growth rather than stagnation.

 

Solving virtual and physical puzzles is a mental fitness practice. Read a wide variety of books, engage all your senses daily, meditate, take up a new hobby or learn a new skill, fill out crossword puzzles, and engage in stimulating conversation that challenges your knowledge. Schedule mental growth practices regularly for the best chance of achieving goals.

 

Hydrate, Exercise, and Sleep Well

 

In today's sedentary lifestyle, staying hydrated is more crucial than ever. The lack of physical reminders to drink water can lead to dehydration. Dehydration of as little as 5% to 10% can negatively impact your physical and mental performance. Similarly, regular exercise and sufficient sleep are not just beneficial, but essential for maintaining your overall well-being and supporting your goal achievement.

 

Regular exercise is vital to goal achievement. Just 20 to 30 minutes of brisk physical activity daily is required to support mental and physical wellness. Sleep seven to nine hours each night. After just one night of insufficient rest, brain fog, a lack of focus, and decreased motor skills are the payoff.

 

Socialize

 

Human beings are meant to socialize. We are usually at our best when we enjoy frequent social interactions. Socializing is a self-care practice that is often overlooked but is essential to our overall well-being. By prioritizing socializing, you are not only taking care of yourself but also fostering a sense of connection and belonging, which is crucial for your emotional health.

 

Take care of these important aspects of your health. The healthiest possible mind and body will give you the optimal opportunity to achieve your goals. As a wonderful side effect, you will enjoy more peace of mind, physical health, and emotional well-being.