Smart Brain Defined

Were there times in your life when you felt you aren’t smart enough? You know, those situations that scream someone is better than you even without effort? Have you also experienced doing an all-nighter research, practicing until your head and hands ache already, and yet, your best turned out still not the best? Now, before you get frustrated and start experiencing self-pity, understand that there is actually more than one type of intelligence. So, this explains why some people are better in this, and some are better in that. To make it clearer, here is the list: 

 

Type of Intelligence	Characteristics
Logical-Mathematical	Interest in patterns, problem-solving, strategy games and science experiments. They love math, physics, chemistry and logic like chocolate. They are usually organized and disciplined.
Linguistic	These are the ones who are comfortable expressing themselves orally or through the written word. They love writing, crossword puzzles and storytelling.
Musical	These are the composers, singers and actors. They have the ability to see and hear musical notes. It has been said that this is one amongst the rarest type of intelligence in the world.
Bodily-kinesthetic	Think of the best athletes, dancers, sewers, crafters, woodworkers, carvers in the world and you got yourself a vivid description. These are the ones who show great control over their motor skills.
Spatial	These are the ones who create and build. Animators, architects and multi-media professionals. They are experts when it comes to processing thoughts in images and pictures.
Interpersonal	Ever wondered what charisma does politicians, great leaders or CEO’s have? This type of intelligence is the answer. People who possess this type of intelligence are generally good at sensing others. They are able to speak well and influence others.
Intrapersonal	This is said to be the rarest form of intelligence. Most often, people who possess this intelligence are misunderstood as they are often shy and quiet. But, in fact, they are the ones who are aware of their actions and are self-motivated.

 

It is always a good start to understand the different types of intelligence in order to know what you are trying to improve on. 

 

Social Intelligence and Smart Brain

How are social intelligence and smart brains related? The fact is, the relationship between the two has a major impact in your life that you may not be aware of. Not improving your social intelligence may be a hindrance as to why you are also not improving some cognitive functions, no matter how hard you try. How so? First, let us define social intelligence. It is actually the ability of build and sustain relationships. Aside from that social intelligence is also the ability to navigate social environments. Since man is undeniably a social being, then social intelligence plays an important role in the success or failure of his career, family life, etc. 

 

Ever experienced wanting to say an inappropriate word in public or to your boss but ate ice cream instead? It is called social tact. Being knowledgeable in it and practicing it could save you a number of unfortunate events and plenty of toxic discourse you don’t need in your life right now. So, if you are interested in improving your social intelligence, here are areas you need to check: 

 

·    Verbal fluency and communication skills – Social intelligence means having the ability to be in a crowd and go with the flow, to hold tactful conversations and listen to others’ stories with sincerity. 

·    Effective listening skills – This is the ability to make other people comfortable sharing things with you. this could be because of the trust people have in you that you have accumulated as a reputation through the years. So, make it a point to learn how to listen without judging or gossiping. Having an attitude that we all are in different stages in our lives and respecting that as a fact could help you understand people more. 

·    Knowledge in social rules and roles - If you are not sure what this means, then you could do your own research or have handy-dandy eBooks to make it easier. Social rules are often not written, but the impact it has on your life is big. The good thing here is that, there is always a choice to learn and improve. 

 

Happy socializing! 

 

Can You Eat Your Way to a Smarter Brain?

Absolutely! Indeed, you can eat your way to a smarter brain! How fun is that? But, is it as easy as it sounds? Let’s start by understanding your gray matter or your brain. It actually looks like an almond made mostly of fats. We will not get so technical about it but understand that the food you eat feeds your brain. The nutritional content of what you out in your mouth affects the function of this almond-like organ. 

Of course, if you feed it well, it could function well, too and if not, then you will have to face the consequences of doing so as well. So, what are the good and bad when it comes to feeing your brain? Have a look: 

 

·    To have a smarter brain, avoid instant food, fast food chains and artificial food – this is because of the chemical content of these food that makes it harmful to your brain. Ingested chemicals do not make your brain grow, instead, it hastens its degeneration. If you want to have healthy cognitive functions, then it is time to be conscious of what is inside your fridge and kitchen. 

·    Whole food diet – Whole food simply means those that come from farms and not factories. If your aim to have a smarter brain, then start by purchasing real food. This is because the nutrients from whole food can easily be absorbed by your body and distributed to your brain. Whole food includes – kale, broccoli, beets, spinach, brown rice, grains, beans, starches like sweet potato and fresh fruits. 

·    Use superfoods as brain boosters – in times when you need extra brain power, for example, an exam or presentation is coming up, don’t rely on sugar for the high. Instead, switch to superfood, which is safer. Examples of these super food that are brain-friendly are: chia seeds, acai, berries, dark chocolate, and different kinds of nuts. 

 

To have a longer and more complete lists, there are a lot of eBooks available in the market at your convenience. 

What If I have Not-So-Smart-Genes?

We will not have a debate as to whether it is true or not, that “smart-o-meter” is in the genes. However, we are to learn a few facts that could help you understand how your brain functions and how you could help it reach its maximum potential. Note though that there are irreversible damages that could be done to the brain like the result of malnutrition. So, the earlier the intervention, the better. Here are some tips you can apply, depending on your current state: 

 

If you are an expecting mother:

 

·    Be sure to follow your doctor’s advice and take folic acid. This is to help in the development of the baby’s brain. 

·    Do not take any medicine without your doctor’s approval. Over-the-counters are a no-no.

·    Never smoke, drink alcohol or take illegal drugs while pregnant. 

·    Try your best to be in a calm and happy state as much as possible.

·    Eat nutritious and whole food.

 

If you are already and adult: 

 

·    First of all, stop thinking that you could do no more. If, unfortunately, there were complications when you were still inside your mother’s womb that could have affected your cognitive capacities today, then keeping a positive mindset is the first step in having a smarter brain. 

·    Have a supply of superfood (acai, chia seeds, kale, beets, berries, etc.). This helps nourish your brain and keep your neurons functioning. 

·    Educate yourself – Do not equate education with age. Learn as much as you can. Even those that you don’t like. You are never too old for a university. It is only attitude that grows old. 

·    Keep your emotions at bay – Remember that your emotions play a big role in the development of your brain as well. And, another thing to stress here is that negative emotions do not make your brain grow. It actually hinders it. 

 

There are still a lot of things you can do to help your brain reach its maximum potential. E-books are readily available for your convenient reading.

 

Creating New Patterns for Smarter Brains

Did you know that patterns or habits can be created? Good habits can actually be started anytime. You just need the will and motivation to do it and believe in it. A lot of successful people believe that our lives is the sum of our habits – good or bad. 

Take a look at this simple scenario, before when the internet isn’t still a craze, you go home from work and have tea and silence as your “me time.” But now that almost every home is with an internet connection, you changed your habit (whether consciously or not) to grabbing your smart phone and browsing your social media accounts. You may say that you see nothing wrong with this but, if what you are aiming for a smarter brain, too much internet isn’t the key. The tea and silence habit could be of more help. How is this connected to your brain? The answer is silence teaches you to be more mindful rather than your social media accounts. 

 

Why do you need to be more mindful to be smarter? It makes neurons and synapses stronger. Learning then, comes next. So how do you practice mindfulness? Here are tips: 

 

·    Breathe properly – This technique teaches you to be more mindful of the things you do.

·    Recognize your thoughts – Know when it is geared towards the negative or the positive and do something about it. 

·    Look for activities that uplifts you – practice doing a thing you love (biking, singing, baking) at least once a week. 

·    Try activities that challenge you – How about a French class? This will surely awaken your brain neurons. 

·    Mentally rerun your day – this is to know what habits to eliminate, especially those that doesn’t help you grow.

·    Have a journal or anything to record your mini achievements until they become great.

 

At the end of the day, it is still YOU who can change the situation you are in. For more regarding this topic, eBooks are abundant in the market for easy referral.

 

The Invisible Sadness Pool

Merely hearing the word sadness, can already make your feel sad. Well, the truth is, nobody passes by in this world without ever feeling sad. It is a fact of life, amongst other natural emotions and it is one of the most common end results of a heart break. If not dealt right away, it could lead to more complicated situations like depression, stress, etc. 

 

Though, being heartbroken is a circumstance you cannot control, how you react and how you handle your situation is something you can think through. This is where the invisible sadness pool comes to the picture. If you choose to drown yourself to your own sadness pool, then even if people around you try to give their helping hand, nothing can be done. 

 

Another important thing to consider is that, your sadness pool may be invisible to others. People might see you just fine or even happy, while you are actually feeling so low in the inside. You see, it is only you who can swim in that invisible pool. But then again, the choice is always yours. 

 

Heartbreaks can indeed, break you. it is one of the consequences of falling in love. This can be experienced not only because of a person, though. Heartbreaks can also be because of your passion, business, children, a long- time friend, family, etc. But of course, those that are romantic in origin almost always gets the spotlight. Romantic love is known for being the most bittersweet amongst all the other factors in the makings of sadness pools. 

 

This is not telling you not to fall in love. Think of it more of a reminder on the importance of knowing how to enjoy the fall and being on guard at the same time. Have all these confused you? 

Why Do Beautiful Things Fall Apart?

When you start asking yourself questions like the title of this article, try looking for answers that are both objective and positive. Beautiful things, like a happy romantic relationship do fall apart. That is one fact that can’t be ignored. But why do breakups happen? How does one understand a breakup? Here are some points to ponder on: 

 

·    People grow, people change – like what scientists say, change is the only thing constant in this world. So, there will come a time when it will seem to you that the person you fell in love with is no longer the same. Though, the ‘change’ may not necessarily mean there is also a change of heart, accepting the ‘new person’ in front of you could be overwhelming. 

·    Falling out of love is possible – before you start calling your “ex” a liar, understand that the full-of-love-and-butterflies-in-the-stomach phase at the beginning of any relationship has an expiration date. 

·    Relationships, like an organic thing, have its own growth process – this is, one of the main and hurtful truths that is bitter to swallow. do you remember yourself asking “We used to…but now…why?” If you try to look at this question objectively, you will understand that this is actually geared towards the positive. How so? Can you imagine a relationship that is stagnant from start to present/finish? You see, personal development is also something that is affected by your relationships. And if your current romantic relationship doesn’t make you a better person, then breakup is inevitable. 

 

If you would want a deeper take on the topic of this article, then eBooks in your smartphone are perfect for you. You can, not only read it at your own time and space (even while commuting to work or while in the toilet) it also comes handy-dandy as you will only be needing your phone, which actually, is already in your pocket. 

 

What to Do When You’re Vulnerable like a Marshmallow

Have you ever wondered why most love songs that top the charts are about heartbreaks? Not just that, movies about love and heartbreaks also becomes blockbuster hits and gain bucketful of tears at the same time. The truth is, heartbreaks can make, even the toughest person, a marshmallow – soft and vulnerable. This is why watching sad movies, listening to sad love songs, eating tubsful of vanilla ice cream and hitting the gym on wee hours feel so comforting. The previous activities relate the most regarding how mushy you feel inside. But, are there other activities that can make you come out of your marshmallow-like feeling? Surprisingly, here is the list: 

 

·    Make sure you have a support system – Depression is real. It is not simply one of the most-searched word in Google. It is experienced by real people and it is a difficult situation to be in. So, before things go out of hand, eat that tub of ice cream and set your goals. You cannot just stay on the couch. Reach out and let others reach out to you. 

·    This too shall pass - Just like all other experiences/hardships/achievements you’ve been through, a heartbreak will have its tipping point, and end. But, you need to help yourself in the process. 

·    It is okay to cry and acknowledge that you are hurting - Pretending you are okay when you are not will take you nowhere. The first step towards healing is accepting the truth. Once you acknowledge what is happening to you, then you could think of what to do next. 

·    The fault is not entirely yours – It takes two to tango; it takes two people to be in a relationship. So, when relationships fail, it is only fair to assume that both involved played a part. Stop blaming yourself and stop drowning in bitterness. 

 

Finally, Moving-On Tips From Real People

Try searching for “Spells for moving on,” or “how to use spells to move on.” You might think it sounds crazy, but the results might overwhelm you. You will learn that thousands of people search for moving on tips and will read or try “spells.” What is this fact trying to say? It is not to affirm the power of spells nor laugh at it. Look at it as simply a manifestation of the difficulties one has to face when trying to move on, especially from romantic relationships. So, how does one surpass the challenge of being stuck in the difficult part of letting of a failed relationship?

 

Without the help of spells, which could possibly go wrong especially when you’re not into memorizing long chants, here are doable tip from people who’ve been there, done that: 

 

·    Allow yourself to grieve – Sadly, in this fast world we live in (fast food, email, smartphones, etc.) even grieving is expected to be fast paced. Though, some people are okay with this, there are some who need longer time to heal. if you feel not yet okay, then accept that you are not. Do not hurry results only to regret at the end. 

·    Give your emotions names - This is simply telling you to make an effort to understand how you really feel. Is it sadness, stress or anger? Identify it to be able to address it. 

·    Try to learn new interesting things – This is to subconsciously teach yourself that endings may turn to new beginnings, if you give it a try and believe that it is possible. Remember that French class you’ve been hesitating to enroll in? Now is the best time to give it a try and so it also is for biking, hiking, pole dancing, taekwondo, etc. 

 

Why Romantic Breakups Leave Such a Mess

Male, female or whatever gender you identify with, you are not exempted from the overwhelming experience of breakups. It is sad, stressful, painful and will make you need healing. The good news is that, many people come out from the experience stronger and ready to begin again. 

 

But, the question is, why does it (romantic breakups) hurt so much? Why does it leave a lot of burned bridges, bitter words and sometimes, regrettable and uncalled for actuations even from the calmest of introverts? 

 

Have you ever heard of the thing called “fantasy bond?” Well, according to studies, this is one of the main reasons for the “mess.” Fantasy bond is an imagined connection that people in romantic relationships develop. It is a false sense of security, feelings of the “other person” completed them, beliefs that one cannot live without the “other person” already, all of which are associated with heightened sensations that goes with falling in love. Imagine all of these inside your head and suddenly losing it all in the moment of a breakup. Breakups shatter fantasy bonds. It brings about a turmoil of negative emotions like self-doubt, insecurities and blame. 

 

Well, life is how we see it and happiness is indeed, a state of the mind. So, even if we say that breakups and heartaches are part of life that can leave us devastated, coming out from it strong and positive is a choice. 

 

May breakups teach you that endings are doors to beginnings. That is, if you can take happy memories from failed relationships and bury the bad with new memories. You are the captain of your ship, sail it to beautiful and colorful shores. 

 

If you want to read more affirmations, especially those who are still in the midst of healing their broken hearts, handy eBooks, which you can read anywhere and anytime are abundant in the market. It is always helpful to read something positive every day.